
Just say No! to Facebook. And I did just that.
Just a few days ago, I made up my mind that I would no longer feed the internet beast commonly known as Facebook™ and deactivated my account. Really, the only reason I didn’t outright delete my account there is to reserve my name and hinder anyone else from hocking it for their own selves.
Be that as it may, I’ve certainly seen enough (and posted enough) information on Facebook while my account was active to convince me that it is not in MY best interests to continue to drive traffic to the site. To me, it’s tantamount to recommending someone to join the Republicans or the Democrats in spite of serious problems in those parties (and nefarious dealings).
Bottom line, I disapprove of Facebook on a number of facets, and to continue to post and participate there just because it’s allegedly the ONLY way to stay in contact with various others hooked into the site, or the MOST POPULAR way to do so just isn’t going to cut it for me any longer.
In fact, after I had been censored by Facebook some months back, with no tangible reason and certainly no tangible way to correct whatever the wrong was, I did return but my heart kept telling me that I was selling out to the Facebook myth as a social network.
This time, I will not sell out on my principles.
For those wanting to hear what I have to say, I can easily be found in the search engines, foremost being this site. And those close and dear to me all know how to contact me, as well.
Now, when I come across information that people should be made aware of in the goings-on of Facebook, I can post it here—rather than feeling hypocritical for posting it on the site I’m criticizing. And, of course, I still use Twitter for my “social” networking, primarily for the random internet-browsing individuals out there, since I really do no advertising.
The added benefit of not being distracted by keeping up with everyone’s posted, tracked, and marketed lives is that I will now have time to get back to the business of writing and other personal pursuits. So, rather than feeling a sense of loss (imposed through the mob mentality that EVERYONE is on Facebook, that it’s the SOCIAL MEDIA NETWORK of our time), I feel relieved, proud, and that I’ve gained far more than I’ve lost (which is itself really only a perceived, virtualized loss).
At least that’s my story. Your own mileage may vary.